Travel for Couples

I was going through a post about traveling to Disney World as a couple and I noticed a few things that remind me how difficult it is to travel as a couple:

• One of the first things is different objectives on your trip -- I like to do a lot of things and he likes to relax. This can cause serious difficulties.
• Another problem is the simple fact that both of us treasure our vacation time. Because of this we both want to make the most of it, which can be a problem when objectives don't align.
• Finally there's just different styles of approaching things. I'm a plan everything type of girl, while he likes to fly by the seat of his pants.

I'm trying to be prepared for doing some compromising. Hopefully he'll be in the same state of mind.